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As a Victim of Domestic Violence, I want a Divorce. What Should I Do?

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Abuse Comes in Many Forms


Abuse comes in many forms.  An abuser will attack their victim physically, sexually, or emotionally.   When a person is being abused, the torture comes in every possible way.  For the abuser, it is all about exerting power over another person and breaking down their will. 

People who are abused feel powerless to help themselves and might stay in a toxic relationship and even make excuses for staying and for their abuser.
Getting out of an abusive relationship can be a daunting and challenging thing, especially if you have children.  There are things you need to do and account for before you tell your spouse and abuser that you want to leave and get a divorce.  If you do not have a plan, the act of stating your intentions can cause your abuser to go into a rage.

You Must First Make a Safety Plan


Call 1-800-799-7233 (TDD: 1-800-787-3224) to find a domestic violence agency.

​The California Courts website has a lot of useful information on how to prepare a safety plan and what to do to get out of an abusive relationship.   The web page includes information on Domestic Violence Shelters, restraining orders, what they can and cannot do, and other resources such as assistance programs, crisis hotlines, and counseling services.

Visit the California Courts Domestic Violence website here…

https://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-domesticviolence.htm

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  • Home
  • PRACTICE AREAS
    • Divorce
    • Spousal Support
    • Child Support
    • Child Custody
    • Visitation
    • Complex High Asset Divorce
    • Contempt of Court
    • Paternity
    • Mediation Coaching
    • Alternative Dispute Resolution - Mediation and Collaborative Divorce
    • Parenting Coordination
  • Bio
    • Certified Family Law Specialist
    • What to Expect
  • Blog
  • FAQ
    • What does the area of Family Law cover?
    • Things To Do After a Divorce is Finalized
    • Annulment
    • Attorney Fee Awards in California
    • Community Property
    • Difference Between Guardianship and Adoption
    • Difference Between Marriage and Domestic Partnership
    • Difference Between Physical and Legal Custody
    • Divorce Process in California
    • Domestic Violence
    • Go to Court for Spousal or Child Support
    • Legal Grounds for Divorce in California
    • “Move Away” After Divorce
    • No Fault Divorce
    • Parenting Plan
    • Residency Requirements for a Divorce in California
    • Summary Dissolution
    • Supervised Visitation
    • The impact of the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (TCJA) of 2017 on Divorce
    • What does it mean to have a fiduciary relationship to your spouse?
  • Resources
  • Contact